Hello Hope’s Voice Family,

I have some BIG news today. Alex (my partner) and I have decided to move forward with the adoption process. This was a major decision for us. While Don’t Ask Don’t Tell is almost out the door, it technically is still the law of the land. This was the main reason for us to wait until this moment. After much reading, research and speaking with several family and friends, we decided that we can move forward and complete an application.

Just to give you all an idea of the process, below is the steps to adoptions for us.

> Complete an application

• Wait 7-10 days to be assigned a social worker
• Complete the “Home Study” application (60-90 day process)
• In the adoptive parents waiting pool (WAIT!)
• Child/Mother is identified and gives birth
• Bring child home
• Complete legal paperwork

While Alex and I have taken the first steps to parenthood, it is a long road. I will keep everyone up to date on the process as it happens. Until then, please keep your fingers crossed that our wait isn’t too long.

Best wishes,

Kevin