Lolisa Gibson | Does HIV Look Like Me?
Lolisa Gibson
Lolisa Gibson Lolisa Gibson
Lolisa Gibson

Lolisa’s childhood was full of fun and adventure. Though she was the second oldest of four children living in the house, Lolisa often took the role as the oldest.  Lolisa and her family attended church on a regular basis.  Lolisa, on her own, often went to church five days out of the week.

Lolisa and her friends often talked about and had crushes on boys, but they all were too shy to actually talk to them.  She and her two closest friends made a pact that they would not have sex with a boy until the night of their high school prom.  By the age of fifteen Lolisa’s friend had broken the pact and she soon followed.  Together they went to get birth control to prevent a pregnancy, however they weren’t concerned about HIV.

Lolisa continue to dedicate her time to school, writing poetry and attending church all of which were things that gave her joy and happiness. In the fall of 2003 at the age of sixteen, Lolisa started to feel ill.  The discomfort turned into uncontrollable pain and when it had reached a breaking point her mother carried her into the hospital, demanding answers.  After a week, seeing countless doctors and having multiple tests, the doctors learned the cause of Lolisa’s pain — esophagitis.  Lolisa was released from the hospital at ninety-five pounds and was able to continue life as she knew it before she got sick.

Unfortunately, the freedom was short lived and she found herself back in the hospital.  Lolisa’s doctor suggested that she have an HIV test.  She knew nothing about the virus except her aunt had died from complications from AIDS a year earlier and that Lolisa was not living with HIV.  Her mother refused to give consent for her daughter to have the test.  Lolisa, not concerned about the result, signed the forms after learning she was old enough to do so.

Lolisa started to feel better and went back to living her life.  On January 20, 2004 the phone rang and she learned news that would change her life forever.  Lolisa, with her mother on the other phone, learned she was HIV positive.  The next day, together, they visited a clinic to learn more about the disease she was living with.  Lolisa learned that the high level of virus in her blood indicated that the virus had been with Lolisa for at least ten years and that her mother should be tested also.  It was at that point that Lolisa’s learned her mother was living with HIV and the conclusion was made that Lolisa most likely was born with the virus.

Lolisa immediately took an active approach in her own life by educating herself on what it means to be HIV positive.  After coming to a place of peace with her diagnosis, she aimed to educate others and started at home by speaking with friends and family.  Lolisa knew the power of her voice and today speaks with everyone and anyone she can, even with the fear of stigma and discrimination.



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Lolisa's visit to campus for a Does HIV Look Like Me lecture helped us put a human face on this virus. Her personal and powerful story helped break down stereotypes about AIDS being somewhere else and a disease that doesn't affect us. Her lecture was very well received and will help us continue conversations about HIV/AIDS on our campus. Many thanks to Lolisa and Does HIV Look Like Me for the great event and for helping to spread awareness about this important issue.

Corey Ackerman
Denison University

Kevin and Lolisa’s lecture was very inspiring and educational.  This lecture was at least the third lecture we have chosen from Hope’s Voice and each one my students leave the lectures feeling inspired as well as having a more well-rounded knowledge of HIV.  The lecture also provides a time for question and answer at the end where students can ask many thought-provoking questions, which in turn helps provide an even more personal and informative touch on living with HIV.

Emily Teitelbaum - Coordinator of Student Programs
University of West Georgia


Brandywine Counseling Brandywine Counseling, Inc. (BCI) is a community organization that provides holistic care to persons and their families living with addiction, mental health, and HIV-related challenges. Brandywine Counseling saves lives. We help people recover from addiction and mental illness, and reduce their HIV risk. Each life saved touches other lives, families, and communities in the Delaware region.

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